Exploring the causes of my failure in poker....
FRESH START ! I deleted my entire database on March 15th. I know that Jared Tendler advises against this, but I need a fresh start. I need to beat my TILT problem and I'm looking to do it on this site.
5 Tips from Cardchat: Tip #1 – Understand equity and the realities of poker. Some players seem to think they are entitled to a pot, if you get it allin with a set vs a flush draw, you are going to be losing the pot approximately 27% of the time. That’s almost 1/3 of the time. Understanding that these things happen frequently in poker is critical to being able to not tilt when you get bad beat. Tip #2 – Become process orientated not results orientated. Results orientated thinking is the downfall of many potentially talented poker players. Everything you should do in poker should be based around how to maximise your expectation in every given hand. If you associate losing with playing bad you are making a mistake. Its perfectly normal to play “perfect” and lose due to running bad and bad beats. Likewise, its perfectly possible to play awful and win on any given day. Don’t be results orientated, be process orientated! Tip #3 – Without bad beats, the fish wouldn’t play! This is a critical realisation. You don’t get fish gambling on chess (A game where the most skilled player wins every game). The reason fish gamble playing poker is because they are convinced they can win on the days they get lucky, consequently they keep playing in the future despite being long term losing players. Variance and bad beats are what keep the fish playing because it gives them hope. If the fish were to loose every single hand, how long do you think they would play? Not long, that’s right! Tip #4 – Bad beats are an opportunity Bad beats happen to everyone and are a way in which you can gain reciprocal profits on your opponents. Look at it like this, every bad beat is a test of your resolve, an opportunity to not tilt. If you don’t tilt in a situation when another player would have tilted, you have made some reciprocal money. Just as you can make money from your opponents by making better betting decisions, you can also make money in regards to tilting. If you don’t tilt, and your opponents tilt, you win! Tip #5 – Figure out your breaking point and quit Every single player in the world has a breaking point. The breaking point is an imaginary amount of money you have to lose, or situations that have to happen to cause someone to play irrationally. The key is to be aware of your emotions and be able to stop playing when you reach that point. Remember, poker is supposed to be a fun and profitable way to spend your time. Any time in which your not having fun and are not playing your best, its best to quit, take a break, re-group and come back playing stronger, better and more profitably.
Sometimes I find that having only ONE goal per session helps. And that goal should be to be constantly aware of my mental state while playing. That's it - no checking results, just try to play poker without overthinking. Analysis is for after the session. If I can keep my emotions under control, it will probably be a good session anyway. And that all starts with awareness. Am I calm? Am I feeling upset at losing a big pot? Am I focusing on one player? Do I feel the need to check results? Monitoring how I feel can be a great session goal.
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